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Whether you have never had sex or have had it with each other a million
times before you get married, you’ll want wedding night sex to sizzle. A little
bit of planning and a whole lot of love will do the trick. Your goal
should be to woo each other with romantic gestures, genuine sentiment, and hot
passion. This guide to your first time having sex as married people should help
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Sex is nothing without romance, especially on a day as romantic as your
wedding. You must do whatever it takes to infuse the night with romance (even
if you start to feel as exhausted from a full day of celebrating). The wedding
night, after all, is just for the two of you.
Find the perfect way to demonstrate how happy you are to have married your
spouse. Hugs, kisses, or whispering sweet nothings might work. The key to
finding the perfect expression of love, however, is knowing your lover. What
actions send the message to him or her that you are in love?
A handwritten note, especially in the age of e-mail and text messages, is
heartfelt and meaningful. If you never write your spouse a love letter, you
should do so on your wedding. Leaving such a note under your spouse’s pillow
ahead of your passionate night together is thoughtful and perfectly timed.
Preparation can make all the difference when it comes to wedding night sex.
After the ceremony and festivities, you might be exhausted. But you can make
sure there will be champagne on ice, rose petals on the floor and a few
candles. Either take care of it yourself the morning of the wedding or ask
someone you trust to do it for you. Make sure you pack your fancy underwear and
lingerie for the wedding night, too. If you forget that, however, nudity always
works well.
If it is your first time having sex (or the first time for your spouse), you
should prepare your body for sex. Women can feel pain the first times they have
sex, but there are things you can do to minimize the pain – from going slow and
being patient to using lubricant. Get the details on what can be done long
before the wedding night itself. Spend lots of time on foreplay to make sure
everyone is hot and ready to go.
Think of your wedding night as the first night of the rest of your sex life.
From the start of your sexual relationship, you should be open and comfortable
with one another. You should also take responsibility for your own sexual
pleasure. In other words, make a plan on how you are going to continue to
pleasure one another and keep things exciting.
Sex, like most things in life, can always get better. Living out reasonable
fantasies, using sex toys, or simply talking might make your sex life go from
boring to spicy. The hard part is determining what the two of you need and how
to merge those needs.
Married sex runs the risk of getting boring. For couples who have had lots
of sex ahead of the wedding night, this can happen from the very first night.
But you can do something about a lack of passion. Court one another – and put
the zing back in your sex life.
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