Sunday, October 28, 2012

How to Kiss a Girl for the First Time


Kissing a girl for the first time can be both nerve wrecking and rewarding. The first kiss in a first date, the first kiss in a relation ship; or just kissing a girl for the first time can be very scary, but just do it. Life is too short.


Steps
  1. 1
    Make sure you have good breath! The girl doesn't want to taste garlic after the kiss, as this can be a major turn off. Before the date or when you see her, brush your teeth and tongue and use mouth wash! To maintain good breath try drinking water on the date instead of soft drink and suck on a mint. Not an over powering mint though, something nice like orange Tic Tacs.


  2. 2
    Flirt a little! Tell her that what she is wearing looks pretty; she will appreciate it! If she playfully punches you a lot or teases you in a friendly manner, then she wants you to touch her. Stay in safe territory like quickly grabbing her hand when you want to go show her something; she will appreciate not having the whole awkward looking at each other and blushing. If you are brave you could put your arm around her waist when you two are laughing and say something playful like "You're so cute".
  3. 3
    Realize that it's hard to determine when it is the right time to kiss. Usually its when you are saying goodbye, or it could just be when you both are looking into each others eyes. Approach her slowly and carefully entwine your arms around her waist, if she moves away then politely ask if somethings wrong. If she is not ready yet, respect that and try to change the subject. If she lets you then slowly pull her body against yours tilt your head to prepare for the kiss.
  4. 4
    Make sure you close your eyes! Start with a loose closed mouth kiss. Once your lips touch, cup her face with your hand and slowly stroke her cheek with your thumb, make sure you still have one arm firm around her waist or lower back. Now slightly open your lips and put them around her lower lip and trace your tongue across it. That should be enough for the first kiss, so slowly pull away and open your eyes.
  5. 5
    Don't be afraid! If she puts a bit of her tongue into your mouth then slowly slide your tongue between her lips, let them touch a bit, then gently pull out again. This should only go on for a little while, you don't want too much for the first kiss.


Tips

  • Don't be too upset if she doesn't want to kiss, there will always be more opportunities!
  • Do not have chapped lips, scrub them with a bit of sugar to get the dead skin off.
  • Try not to be nervous, just let go!
  • Right before your lips touch, swallow excess spit and lightly lick your lip to make them moist.

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